SERVICES
Support for Divorce.
Knowledge and Experience Matter!
Affordable Help
Get my professional assistance at $95 per hour, unlike high-end therapists who charge $200 to $300 per hour and may not be trained in divorce matters. You don’t have to figure it out on your own; I will share tools and coping skills. Not knowing what may happen from day to day is part of divorce. We will work on your emotions and reaction to surprises and curve balls. I will support you on your way to freedom. I also offer session packages.
Divorce attorneys can charge high hourly rates. To minimize the cost to you financially and emotionally, I will get you prepared ahead of time to deal with attorney meetings, negotiations, calls, emails and court appearances in a very efficient and effective manner that will save you thousands. I can also help you understand the repercussions of your discussions with your attorney or ex with “post-meeting” reviews. Together we will goal set, strategize and create action plans that will keep you on track of achieving your goals.
Goal Setting
When you fail to plan, you plan to fail. Once I have listened to your particular situation for complete understanding, I will guide you through a goal setting session where we’ll identify your immediate goals and then focus on your future desires and goals. I will NOT let you plan to fail! I will be your change agent that helps you achieve what you want to accomplish now and in your future.
Strategy Creation
Once we have identified your goals, I will help you craft a creative strategy that will ensure that you meet your objectives. Besides having certified divorce coach training and successful experience in helping others through their divorce, I also possess first-hand knowledge of going through a very long, drawn-out, and expensive divorce myself. And my ex was a shrewd New York City lawyer who had several “friendly” attorneys on his team. My attorney and I saw almost every “trick” that could be played throughout my 13-year divorce. Let me help you to strategize whatever comes at you. I will support and assist you throughout the entire process.
Many issues can be resolved outside of the attorneys and courts. This is not only beneficial financially, but also emotionally, especially for children who may be involved. Running on emotions and little logic or plans can drive up big legal fees. My overall policy is to help all parties stay calm, logical, and out of the courts. But if you have no alternative but the court system, I will be your street-smart savvy coach that always will be in your corner.
Action Plan
The next service and step that I help you with is creating a step-by-step action plan. This plan can include what is needed to be done today, this week, or next month. How specific or broad of a detailed plan will be derived by how much hand holding you think you need as well as my perception of what is needed to help you stay on track of your goals and future. That’s my role…to help you understand things that you’ve never needed to know before. Given my first-hand divorce experience, I will make this process easier for you. You will be able to accomplish your plan with confidence!
Work Through Emotional Despair with My Help
Get the emotional and moral support you need at your convenience at I Listen and Help. I would love to help you overcome the challenges and hardships you are experiencing during your divorce. I will provide a roadmap to rebuild your life and your self-esteem. Let’s shake off all the undeserved shame or guilt.
We will work on how to respond inward and outward to the legal, financial and emotional challenges. Together we will take on your concerns and chart a path forward. Help will be on the way with video calls, real-time messages, texts, and e-mails.
In 1999 when my divorce was finalized, I thought back and wished that I had access to someone like me today that could have walked me through and guided me during that very contentious divorce. However, that’s how my career started. I became that someone I wish I had had then. Friends, neighbors, and even parents at school began asking for my help.
As a caring and compassionate individual, rely on me to patiently and actively listen to you through your divorce and post-divorce difficulties. Whether you are in denial, pain, uncertainty or depression, I will listen. I can and will help!